
Friday, April 29, 2011
Thursday, April 28, 2011
Thought for Food
Four-year-olds are like teenagers. Ask them what they did at school today, and they'll say, "I don't know."
"Well, who did you play with?"
"Nobody."
"Nobody played with you the whole day?"
"I don't know, Mom. Stop asking me these questions!"
Lucky for us, this four-year-old likes games. So we've made a game of going around the table, taking turns asking questions. Everyone who can talk gets to ask, and it can be any kind of question. It certainly makes for entertaining conversation. Here are a few from dinner last night:
What is one fun thing you'd like to do this summer?
Tell me some things that you like about turkeys, roosters, and peacocks.
What is one thing that you'd like to do but you're afraid to try?
If you could have either wings or a tail, which would you have, what kind, and why?
What would you like to do when you grow up (not be, but do)?
If you could live anywhere else in the world, where would you live and why?
If you were camping, what would you like to do?
What kind of book would you like to read that you've never read before?
What is the silliest thing you could wear on a hat?
What is the saddest thing of all?
What is the happiest thing of all?
What is the silliest thing you could put on an live chicken?
If you could live in any other time period, when would you live and why?
If you were a superhero, what would your powers be?
If you could have any kind of animal in the world as a pet, what would you have and what would you call it?
What kind of cereal would you want in the whole entire world?
Tell me two things. If you were walking out to a pizza restaurant, would you wear socks and shoes that are fancy, or socks and shoes that are decorated with real pizza? What about if you were going to a party and you needed to dance?
"Well, who did you play with?"
"Nobody."
"Nobody played with you the whole day?"
"I don't know, Mom. Stop asking me these questions!"
Lucky for us, this four-year-old likes games. So we've made a game of going around the table, taking turns asking questions. Everyone who can talk gets to ask, and it can be any kind of question. It certainly makes for entertaining conversation. Here are a few from dinner last night:
What is one fun thing you'd like to do this summer?
Tell me some things that you like about turkeys, roosters, and peacocks.
What is one thing that you'd like to do but you're afraid to try?
If you could have either wings or a tail, which would you have, what kind, and why?
What would you like to do when you grow up (not be, but do)?
If you could live anywhere else in the world, where would you live and why?
If you were camping, what would you like to do?
What kind of book would you like to read that you've never read before?
What is the silliest thing you could wear on a hat?
What is the saddest thing of all?
What is the happiest thing of all?
What is the silliest thing you could put on an live chicken?
If you could live in any other time period, when would you live and why?
If you were a superhero, what would your powers be?
If you could have any kind of animal in the world as a pet, what would you have and what would you call it?
What kind of cereal would you want in the whole entire world?
Tell me two things. If you were walking out to a pizza restaurant, would you wear socks and shoes that are fancy, or socks and shoes that are decorated with real pizza? What about if you were going to a party and you needed to dance?
Wednesday, April 27, 2011
Smudge
Also known as fudge. But Betsy calls it smudge, which is really a more fitting name, isn't it? Quick, simple, and oh-so-sweet. The recipe can easily be adapted to a dairy-free version; just choose shortening and soy milk from the alternatives listed below.

Pepper Family Smudge
6 Tbsp shortening, butter, or margarine
3 1/4 cups confectioner's 10x powdered sugar
1/2 cup unsweetened cocoa powder
1/4 cup soy milk or cow's milk
1 1/2 teaspoons vanilla extract
1/2 teaspoon salt
Grease a 9" x 5" loaf pan (I use canola oil spray).
Place medium sized saucepan over medium-low heat. Add shortening (or butter or margarine) and allow to soften and partially melt. Add all other ingredients, stirring constantly until smooth. It will look clumpy and messy and on the verge of failure, and then it will quickly congeal into a smooth glossy mass. Remove from heat and immediately spread mixure in prepared loaf pan.
Cool and cut into squares.

Pepper Family Smudge
6 Tbsp shortening, butter, or margarine
3 1/4 cups confectioner's 10x powdered sugar
1/2 cup unsweetened cocoa powder
1/4 cup soy milk or cow's milk
1 1/2 teaspoons vanilla extract
1/2 teaspoon salt
Grease a 9" x 5" loaf pan (I use canola oil spray).
Place medium sized saucepan over medium-low heat. Add shortening (or butter or margarine) and allow to soften and partially melt. Add all other ingredients, stirring constantly until smooth. It will look clumpy and messy and on the verge of failure, and then it will quickly congeal into a smooth glossy mass. Remove from heat and immediately spread mixure in prepared loaf pan.
Cool and cut into squares.
Tuesday, April 26, 2011
Basil
On particularly long and difficult days, I try to pick one small fun thing to accomplish. Today's sweet-smelling task:
plant the basil.
This is a Thai basil called Siam Queen. I planted Sweet Basil as well, for pesto and tomato sauce. While our veggies haven't done well on the patio, we've had pretty good results from the herbs. And as much as we love to cook, we really appreciate having fresh herbs a few steps from the kitchen.
I suppose I should wait a few days before starting to snip away, though, right?
Monday, April 25, 2011
An Easter Mystery
In which we learned why the Easter bunny shouldn't hide eggs outside at Grandma and Grandpa's house while we are at church.

Look carefully at the plastic egg that Matthew is holding. Someone--or something--had chewed right through it (and several other eggs) and absconded with the chocolate inside.
Astute observers will also look at Betsy and realize that this happened last Easter. It's still a cute story, I think.
We came up with some theories about who could have eaten all those plastic eggs, but we didn't have much hope of actually spotting the thief. It was the eagle-eyed three year old who spotted him 30 feet up in a tree, way across the yard, hours later.

She went tearing across the yard yelling at him, and the squirrel skittered off in one direction as he threw the egg in the other direction, chocolates sailing through the air. Had he found an egg we'd missed, or was this one he had tucked away somewhere? We'll never know.
Look carefully at the plastic egg that Matthew is holding. Someone--or something--had chewed right through it (and several other eggs) and absconded with the chocolate inside.
Astute observers will also look at Betsy and realize that this happened last Easter. It's still a cute story, I think.
We came up with some theories about who could have eaten all those plastic eggs, but we didn't have much hope of actually spotting the thief. It was the eagle-eyed three year old who spotted him 30 feet up in a tree, way across the yard, hours later.
She went tearing across the yard yelling at him, and the squirrel skittered off in one direction as he threw the egg in the other direction, chocolates sailing through the air. Had he found an egg we'd missed, or was this one he had tucked away somewhere? We'll never know.
Saturday, April 23, 2011
Lenten Lessons
I gave up anger for Lent. Or at least I tried to.
In the past I've given up things like sweets or alcohol or the internet; things that were pretty clear cut. Going into Lent this year, I didn't have a specific plan for how I was going to deal with my anger, just a rule that I was not allowed to get angry. I had to find some other way to handle what I was feeling.
I quickly learned that there are many shades of anger, and some were harder to resist than others. For me, anger that was really fear (like road rage) was easier to resist than anger that was really fatigue, or lack of control. And what about good anger, the kind that leads us to campaign for social justice and to protect others? Should that be ignored, too?
On really difficult days, I noticed that I collected things to be angry about. First I forgot my bag, and then it was pouring rain, and then traffic was bad, and the kids were making too much noise, and on and on. And the more I looked, the easier it was to find things to be angry about.
But I also found that if I tried collecting reasons to be thankful, it was pretty easy to compile those lists, too. If I hadn't forgotten my bag, I wouldn't have realized that I'd forgotten my hat too. Yes it's pouring rain, but doesn't it smell wonderful, and don't I love watching it on the windshield? The kids are noisy because they are making each other giggle, and isn't that a good thing to hear?
Now I wasn't always great at this. I failed at this Lenten challenge like I've failed at no other, and there were days where I was overwhelmed and snapped at everybody and got in a terrible funk. I'm not proud of how I handled those times.
But I learned that I could control my reactions, much more than I'd previously thought. On those long hard days when nobody was coming to help and I just had to deal, I could "hit the reset button" and stop collecting reasons to be angry. Sometimes the reset button was a walk around the neighborhood, sometimes it was trying on ridiculous wigs with the kids, sometimes it was taking time to clean the kitchen so one part of my life was orderly again. But I learned that a bad day could be stopped, and that anger didn't have to beget anger.
The Reverend Rob Merola recently preached a great sermon titled "Going Through No to Get to Yes". And I think that by saying no to anger, I was able to say yes to so many more moments of wonder and happiness. And if that helped to make just one other person's day a bit better, then it was a worthwhile effort indeed.
In the past I've given up things like sweets or alcohol or the internet; things that were pretty clear cut. Going into Lent this year, I didn't have a specific plan for how I was going to deal with my anger, just a rule that I was not allowed to get angry. I had to find some other way to handle what I was feeling.
I quickly learned that there are many shades of anger, and some were harder to resist than others. For me, anger that was really fear (like road rage) was easier to resist than anger that was really fatigue, or lack of control. And what about good anger, the kind that leads us to campaign for social justice and to protect others? Should that be ignored, too?
On really difficult days, I noticed that I collected things to be angry about. First I forgot my bag, and then it was pouring rain, and then traffic was bad, and the kids were making too much noise, and on and on. And the more I looked, the easier it was to find things to be angry about.
But I also found that if I tried collecting reasons to be thankful, it was pretty easy to compile those lists, too. If I hadn't forgotten my bag, I wouldn't have realized that I'd forgotten my hat too. Yes it's pouring rain, but doesn't it smell wonderful, and don't I love watching it on the windshield? The kids are noisy because they are making each other giggle, and isn't that a good thing to hear?
Now I wasn't always great at this. I failed at this Lenten challenge like I've failed at no other, and there were days where I was overwhelmed and snapped at everybody and got in a terrible funk. I'm not proud of how I handled those times.
But I learned that I could control my reactions, much more than I'd previously thought. On those long hard days when nobody was coming to help and I just had to deal, I could "hit the reset button" and stop collecting reasons to be angry. Sometimes the reset button was a walk around the neighborhood, sometimes it was trying on ridiculous wigs with the kids, sometimes it was taking time to clean the kitchen so one part of my life was orderly again. But I learned that a bad day could be stopped, and that anger didn't have to beget anger.
The Reverend Rob Merola recently preached a great sermon titled "Going Through No to Get to Yes". And I think that by saying no to anger, I was able to say yes to so many more moments of wonder and happiness. And if that helped to make just one other person's day a bit better, then it was a worthwhile effort indeed.
Thursday, April 21, 2011
Easter Shoes
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